Well, for one, she's older. [ Perrin thinks about his next words carefully. How much to say? How much to taint it with his own thoughts? ] Lots of people used her. Turned her into a symbol. That's when I met her, when she left that for a while.

I told you she left. She left to find her siblings. She loved 'em.

...she's a good lass. Didn't deserve all of that.